Blog Tour Bonus

1 07 2014

I am pleased to add to My Writing Process Blog Tour another interesting author.

Ytasha L. Womack is an author, filmmaker, dancer and futurist. Her book Afrofuturism: The World of Black Sci Fi and Fantasy explores black sci fi culture, bleeks, black comix, and the legacy of futurism. She is author of the critically acclaimed book Post Black: How a New Generation is Redefining African American Identity and 2212: Book of Rayla.

She is also the coeditor of the hip hop anthology Beats, Rhyme & Life: What We Love and Hate About Hip Hop. Her films include Love Shorts (writer/producer) and The Engagement (director).

Ytasha is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University and studied media management at Columbia College in Chicago. She resides in the Windy City.





My Writing Process Blog

26 06 2014

My writing colleague, Leesa Freeman graciously invited me to join this blog tour. She’s a contemporary mainstream author, Secretary for the American Author and Publisher’s Guild, and a native Texan, living Connecticut.

I am currently reclaiming ownership of my first published novel, To Say Goodbye, from a small press in order to self-publish it. I then will issue the sequel, The Light Gets In, where faithful followers can see what Maia and Ben are doing lately. In the fall, if no other options arise, I will publish Caravan of Dreams, a historical novel about gypsies in Connecticut in the 1800s. I can’t wait to get that out!

My works tend to involve historical events and psychological issues. For example, To Say Goodbye focuses on personal growth and transformation through a relationship, with a setting impacted by JFK, Bay of Pigs, and the Cuban missile crisis. Its sequel, The Light Gets In,  has a theme of forgiveness in the context of Rasputin. Caravan of Dreams explores the lives of a Connecticut gypsy family, Thomas and Victoria Williams, while examining the psychology behind Victoria’s death on the railroad tracks in East Hartford.

I feel compelled to address questions when I write: did Victoria kill herself or was it an accident? Do we learn from false government claims (Bay of Pigs, Gulf of Tonkin) or do we repeat them? Sometimes, the arc of the story is clear to me; sometimes it evolves as I go.

To continue this tour, I introduce you to three authors I respect, who will post on their sites next week:

Jen EifrigJen Eifrig, a member of my first writing group, is an author, consultant, and full-time mom. She is a lover of all things mysterious and magical, including religion, mythology, archaeology, natural history, space, computers, parapsychology, and string theory. She lives in unabashed geeky glory with an annoyingly brilliant husband, two budding fangirls, and a miniature pinscher that thinks it isn’t.

Kasey_0052Another local writer, Kasey Shoemaker, is a transplanted New Englander, originally from Florida, who started writing when she was seven years old. She has a Masters in writing from Trinity College and enjoys drinking red wine, eating anything that goes with red wine (most things do), singing, dancing badly in her living room, practicing yoga and kickboxing (not at the same time), and watching Tarantino movies.

Birdauthor-210I “met” Stephanie Rose Bird through the A to Z Blog Challenge. Author of five published books, Stephanie is a member of the American Botanical Council’s Herb Research Society, the International Center for Traditional Childbearing (Black Midwives and Healers), and the National Association of Holistic Aromatherapy as well as the Authors Guild. She graduated with honors from Temple University, Tyler School of Art and received an MFA from the University of California San Diego. Bird won a Senior Fulbright Scholar Award and through that award she did field work in anthropology in Australia with various groups of Australian Aboriginal people.  More recently she has been studying Gullah culture in South Carolina.

I hope you take the time to check out these three amazing and diverse women and learn what they value. And don’t forget to read their posts next week in My Writing Process Blog.





FEAR

31 05 2014

Sunshine on rain washed pines 05.31.14 03Since 2009, I have written three novels (one  published in 2012) and a short story. Then, I decided to take last summer off. After all, I love the beach and it was only a few months. In September, I said I’d start writing in October and, before I knew it, it was 2014 and I still wasn’t writing. The April A to Z Blog Challenge came along, and I signed up again, after swearing I wouldn’t, with the hopes it would jumpstart me.

April came and went. I did the blog, which was fun and interesting. I made a plan for when and how to publish book two and three, with April and May goals, and I’ve done nothing towards that. So, earlier this week, I met with Jen Eifrig to get her suggestions. A powerhouse from my first writing group, she’s ruthless.

“If you want to write, there is only one thing to do.”
I look at her expectantly.
“Write,” she said, totally serious.
There was silence. She continued, “You know why you aren’t writing?”
“Oh, yes, first it was summer, then I had a new relationship, and now my daughter just had a baby, I–”
Jen put up her hand to stop me. “No, those are just excuses. You know the real reason?”
I shook my head.
“Fear.” Her eyes peered into mine. “Fear of rejection, of not being good enough, of making a mistake.” She paused. “Fear. It’s all fear.”
I shook my head. “I don’t buy into that.”
In her typical Jen way, she nodded. “It’s all fear.”

For the past few years, fear has been a stranger to me. I have walked onto limbs that shouldn’t bear my weight, both literally and figuratively. I’ve started cutting-edge careers and passions, and I’ve worked with new people and fresh concepts. I’ve charted innovative territory for me and I’ve loved where it’s taken me. I thought I had put fear behind me.

But here I sit, a few days after this conversation with Jen and I am thinking about fear. And, as usual, Jen’s right. I don’t believe writing-based fear has stopped me. But I have experienced fear recently and I wonder if it’s spread to my view of the world in general.

My daughter just had a baby in April and, in the last few weeks of her pregnancy, I felt fear. I sensed those nagging “what if” nibbling at my elbows and heart. What if the baby isn’t healthy? What if something happens to my daughter? She is the most precious person in my life and I can’t imagine being without her. As you might guess, all went well and we have a vibrant new human being in our family.

Last summer, I started a new relationship, one with immense potential and great challenge. I’ve learned a lot during these ten months, especially about myself. I’ve discovered that my spiritual growth sometimes takes the back seat to my reactionary self. I’ve found that my basic core traits remain annoyingly the same, despite my self-awareness and alleged transformation. And I have experienced fear: fear of failure, and fear of instigating and perpetuating chaos and drama.

Could fear from those situations have trickled into my writing? I am thinking so. And, Jen, here I am writing about it, thank you! I am finding my center, trusting my self, regaining my authenticity, and loving the stunning beauty of rain water coating the pines sparkling in the sun this morning.





Reflections on 2014 A to Z Blog

9 05 2014

April is over and blogging is done. Please check out my Reflections on 2014 A to Z Blog. Now back to writing!!





Hike Higby Mt Sat May 3 at 10AM

30 04 2014

Join me to Hike Higby Mt Sat May 3 at 10AM.





Hike Higby Mt Sat May 3 at 10AM

30 04 2014

On Saturday, May 3, Beth Lapin will be offering a hike on Higby Mountain as part of the City of Middletown’s rescheduled Earth Day Celebration. We will have a rare opportunity to access the Mattabesett Trail through the city’s water department lands that include Higby and Adder Reservoirs.

Come join her for a three+ hour moderate walk up the eastern flank of the ridge, along the top, where we can snack, and then continue our loop to the water treatment building.

Wear hiking shoes (some wet areas), bring a snack and water, camera, binoculars if desired.

Directions: on Route 66, about a quarter-mile west of the junction with Higby Road (Red Dog Saloon), look for an unmarked driveway on the right (north) with an orange cone that leads to the reservoir. Follow it to the buildings, where there are restrooms and parking.

Please let her know (Beth@HealingNatureCT.com) if you are planning to join us. Questions: 860 398 4470; that morning: 860 262 2788.





Nature Class May 1, 8, 15, 22

22 04 2014

Healing Nature WATER 06.21.12 004In our hectic world, discover the calming, peaceful benefit of nature. In this program, we will use our senses to strengthen our connection with the natural world and be introduced to several techniques to help relax and let go of daily stress. In addition, we will use our creative outlets such as writing, drawing, music/sound, and movement, to express our experiences and address weekly environmental topics. Come explore what nature can do for you and what you can give back!

Register online at www.middletownct.gov/webtrac, or at Middletown Park and Recreation, 100 Riverview Center, #140, $65 for four sessions, Thursday evenings, May 1, 8, 15, 22. Questions: Beth@HealingNatureCT.com or 860 398 4470.  2014 Healing Nature Class Registration Form





A to Z (again!)

2 04 2014

HOlding Hands sunsetThe A to Z blog has begun again! Here’s the first post: ACCEPT.

You can follow this blog at:

http://bethlapinsatozblog.wordpress.com/

 





What Plants Talk About

30 03 2014

Route 81 loop 006Ever wondered if plants communicate or how they are so successful? An excellent and thought-provoking program on PBS explores What Plants Talk About. Check it out!

According to PBS: “When we think about plants, we don’t often associate a term like “behavior” with them, but experimental plant ecologist JC Cahill wants to change that. The University of Alberta professor maintains that plants do behave and lead anything but solitary and sedentary lives. What Plants Talk About teaches us all that plants are smarter and much more interactive than we thought!”





Radio Interview!

25 03 2014

Beth in WESU recording studioBeth Lapin, EcoTherapist, was interviewed on Helen Evrard’s Mind Matters program on Wednesday, March 26 at 6:00pm on WESU FM, 88.1, Middletown;WESU check out the replay